Think about how often you opt for security. You will stick with the same job you dislike because you’ve got seniority or because you’re vested, you stick with the same mate you dislike because you think, “well, who else will have me?” You stick with a job or some direction where you think you are secure and yet, you are continually reminded of your own dependency. The problem is that when you opt for security and you’re unhappy, then you’re dependent. If you’re dependent then you are weak and angry. So instead, consider happiness. Happiness is when you are in control of your life rather than dependent. So, jump in the pool, take that risk, off-load that security and you will feel better.