After more than four decades in the business of creating improved behavior and relationship and performance effectiveness, it has been routinely and abundantly clear that RESCUING AND FIXING OTHERS FAILS MOST OF THE TIME, in particular, when it is YOUR IDEA TO DO THE RESCUING! Read more
SOME PEOPLE ARE TALKERS; they just love to talk and keep on talking. They are able to change subjects at a moment’s notice, rarely completing one thought before starting another. Blah, Blah, Blah. You have probably known people like this.
WHAT IS GOING ON HERE?
How do you deal with these professional talkers? Most of the time, you probably wait for them to STOP TALKING. You may be concerned that you will be RUDE if you interrupt them, so you simply wait and hope they will stop… AND THEY KEEP TALKING! Read more
Are we becoming infected?
I am afraid sometimes that I am. Yikes!
The whining, the criticizing, the condemning, the blaming, the bellyaching, the awfulizing, the complaining, the catastrophizing, the obsessing… all delivered by so many victims and malcontents. Oh my, enough already!
For many decades, the media has routinely delivered the news and it has almost always been bad. Whether you see it, read it, or listen to it… it is 90% BAD NEWS.
When we were little, we loved to pretend. In fact, we really enjoyed playing “let’s pretend” with our friends. We associate having fun with those memories, and often still daydream and take pleasure in fantasizing about our lives, our future, and our circumstances.
The good news is that pretending is fun; it allows us to dream, fantasize, and believe in the magic. The bad news is, sometimes we hide in pretending as a method to avoid dealing with reality.
REMEMBER, there is always a gap between how life should be and how life is. That gap can be small or huge. When we pretend to excess, we imagine how life is supposed to be… and we often get lost in those imaginations. Read more
Below are statements gathered from dozens of people, ages 5 to 95, many of which were collected in Live and Learn and Pass it On, Volume II.
For your consideration:
I’ve learned… that the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I’ve learned… that when you’re in love, and you find your smile, it shows.
What would you rather do… take responsibility for yourself, complete with your spine and self-respect intact or become a certified weak and whining professional victim?
PROFESSIONAL VICTIMS Read more
I often think about life in general and mine in particular when it seems that I am experiencing increasing opportunities presented to me that say “Would you like a senior discount?”
It is certainly true that life seems to be going by faster, and I can only say… “Who authorized that?”
So here are some musings for your consideration and for you to pause and re-evaluate the business of living: Read more
EMBRACE COMMON SENSE… and Common Sense is very uncommon!
Dr. Mitchell Perry
Notice how often you hear people say…
“That’s just common sense… everyone knows that!” Read more